In an older posting entitled “4 Ways to Teach Your Children Responsibilities“, I suggested that one way to teach your children responsibility is by giving them chores. The following is a list of ‘age-appropriate’ chores, tasks or activities suitable for your children.
2 – 3 years
• Picking up their toys and putting them away
• Get or fetch things when requested or asked
• Throw things into the rubbish bin
• Put their clothes in the hamper for washing
3-4 years
• Do all of the above
• Clear away the plates or dishes from the table
• Put away laundered clothes
• Help in setting the table
4 – 5 years
• Do all of the above
• Help to put in the laundry for washing
• Make their bed themselves
• Can fold laundered clothes
• Help in putting away the groceries
• Water the plants
5 – 6 years
• Do all of the above
• Feed the pets
• Help in meal preparation, for example washing the vegetables
• Help clean the pet’s cage or area
photo credit: WonderRob™
6 – 7 years
• Do all of the above
• Sweep the floor
• Help with gardening/ yard work
• Help prepare and pack their lunch (e.g. sandwiches or fruits)
The other advantages of allowing your children to practice the tasks are they develop their independence and self-esteem. According to the Montessori’s teaching, a child’s mind is very ‘absorbent’ from birth through age six. During this period, the natural ability to learn languages and to develop brain activity patterns are at the peak or most receptive.
Moreover, every wise parent would want to encourage their children to develop independence fast through self-care activities and through completing household chores.