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Do you agree with the title above? Your answer may depend on what is your definition of a good marriage and what is good parenting. The definition of a good marriage also varies with different couples. I am going to mention some requirements below and see whether you have other opinions or you want to add to it.
Having a good marriage means:
• You and your partner are emotionally and physically connected
• Both of you are honest with each other
• Both of you respect each other’s opinions and the differences in view points
• Both of you can talk openly about everything
• Both of you share common goals
• Both of you make time for each other, just the two of you
The above are some ideas that come immediately to mind when I think about what makes a good marriage. Personally, I believe it is important to have a strong marriage in order to be good in parenting.
My personal belief is that parenting is the responsibility of both partners. Each partner contributes positively in different ways to a child’s upbringing. Learn more about becoming good parents in an earlier posting entitled, “How to Become a Good Parent“ and “How to Improve Your Parenting Skills?“. I will be the first to admit that parenting a child or children is very complicated and requires a lot of patience. Hence, I am thankful to have a loving partner and we can work together as a team to fulfill all of our parenting responsibilities.
Therefore, it is important to solve any existing relationship problems quickly and strengthen the marriage foundation. Problems in a marriage may arise due to various reasons like cheating, misunderstandings, dishonesty, due to neglect, debt problems, etc.
Recently, I discovered a proven method or system created by a marriage expert that has a high success rate of close to 90% in saving marriages. The normal rate is about 20% only using the common techniques recommended by other marriage experts in the same field. If you think that you may benefit from this marriage or relationship saving system, you can get a free report here, “Save Your Marriage“.
Below are some unique features about this system:
• It can be applied even if only one partner is making the effort to save the marriage or relationship
• It can be applied no matter at what stage is the crisis, for example even after the divorce proceeding has started
• It can be applied for different relationship problems the couple is facing. For example, problems related to money, sex, dishonesty or cheating and many more.
Some couples stay together instead of separating for the sake of the children. However, this situation does not last long. In addition, it also affects the children in one-way or another. For example, the parents are supposed to be the role model that the children will learn from about relationship, marriage, respect, parenting, etc.
Therefore, having a solid and happy marriage means being able to carry out your parenting role more effectively and providing a positive growing up environment for the children.
What is your opinion about this subject matter? Please feel free to leave your comments below.
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Hi Jacqueline, great sharing you have here. I absolutely agree with the title of your post. Parents are role model for their children. Healthy marriage produce healthy parenting and healthy parenting produce healthy children.
Hi Yan, I love your statement
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