Part I
As parents, we want to protect our children from encountering any harm. However, over protecting them means limiting their experiences and self-learning process. In addition, we cannot always be on stand-by beside them 24/7 all the time.
Your children will start to separate from you and learn to stand on their own feet when they begin day care, nursery or play school. They will start to practice their social skills and independence with other children as well as other adults. This may be the correct time to talk to your children about safety. Below are some of the main advice you do not want to leave out.
#1: Do not take candy from a stranger
Your child may not know your definition of a stranger, so you may have to be specific when giving this advice. You can tell him not to take anything from another person except his parents, teacher, uncle, aunt, etc.
#2: Do not talk to strangers
Tell you child to check with you first on whether it is alright to talk to another person or grown-up. If he is with a baby-sitter, then to ask the baby-sitter for permission first.
#3: If you suddenly get lost in a supermarket or mall, get an adult to help you
Tell your child to go to the counter or to find someone with a name-tag or one of the store workers to help him find you. Your child should stay inside the building and not to wander out. Also remember to teach your child his full name, the parents’ full name and phone number.
#4: Do not wander out of the parent’s sight
Teach your child to stay within sight, where he can see you all the time. Tell him to inform you first before he moves to another spot at the playground for example.
#5: Do not keep secrets
Be clear with your child that the only secrets he can keep is relating to “surprises”. For example, a present for someone’s birthday. It is important to emphasize that parents have a right to know all other things that is said or done to him.
What is your opinion or personal experience regarding the above?
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